My -Mother-in-law -is -ruining -my -marriage

Hey Fab,

I live in Chicago and I’ve been married for 8 years to my high school sweetheart. We have two kids together and he is really close to his family especially his mom. She has keys to our house and pops up unannounced all the time. He has to call her every day and tell her goodnight before he goes to sleep. When she comes over she opens up our mail dissecting our monthly bank statements. She is constantly criticizing my cooking and how I raise our kids. Before my husband makes a decision he has to ask her for her approval. I’ve talked to my husband about his mom on multiple occasions yet he does nothing about it. He usually ignores me when ever I bring her up and tells me that I’m “to dramatic”! I’m sick and tired of his mother and everyday she gets worse! She is pushing me to the limit!!! What should I do?

Patrica

Hey girl,

You have a serious problem on your hands that you must nip in the bud immediately! Mother-in law situations are rough because you can’t get rid of them. You need to focus on getting threw to your man! Get his attention and let him know that if he doesn’t stand up to his mother his marriage is on the line!!! You better put your “woman” on and get tough! You might want to try planning a romantic dinner for the two of you. Get a sitter for the kids and pull out that freakum dress!!!! Now that you have him alone tell him how u feel! Try to communicate your concerns as calm as possible. Keep your composure and speak logically not emotionally! If he loves you, you will see some changes!

Good luck!

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