black love

So you’ve met Mr. Right or  Mr. Right now and tonight is the night you’ve been dreaming of all year,month,week and minute lol. You look good, you smell good and you’re wearing the Victoria Secret lingerie set you just brought. Nothing can go wrong, at least that’s what you think…

Find out the 4 things you must NOT do the first time you do the nasty with your new man when you continue reading! GO

1. Don’t depend on him for birth control: Yes, he should carry condoms, but ultimately it’s up to you — it’s your body and you need to keep yourself safe. PERIOD!

2. For God Sake, DON’T CRY!: Some woman think you look innocent when you cry after sex. Unless you are a virgin and blood is on the bed no one wants to hear or see that shit! You’re an adult, you made a adult decision to have sex, so act like it! Pull yourself together the first time you do the do with your new man. Waterworks will lead him to believe that either he hurt you–or he’ll think that you’re a mental case. Either way, you probably won’t be seeing him again anytime soon.

3.Leave the “Fat” talk for your girls: You know how almost every woman you know thinks she’s fat? Well this is NOT the time to express that! Have those conversations with your girls at brunch! If he thought you was fat you would not be there with him, so enjoy the moment and save the “fat talk” for your friends! Most guys think they’re, more endowed than they actually are.. so don’t feel bad! LOL

4. Don’t show him every trick in your book: Yes, I know it’s been a while, but try to breathe, relax, and enjoy yourself. This is supposed to be mutual pleasure between two people not an audition for a porn feature film! Hold back, and leave something to the imagination…If you give him everything the first time he has nothing left to desire….

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